The Best Authentic Italian Sunday Gravy (Sugo)
This authentic recipe for Italian Sunday gravy (sauce) - or sugo, as my family calls it - is a rich tradition that's been passed down through my Sicilian family for generations. It's a homemade red sauce that gets simmered for hours with meatballs, Italian sausage, and melt-in-your-mouth pieces of tender slow cooked pork. Traditionally served on Sundays, this iconic Italian recipe is perfect for big family gatherings, special occasions or any night of the week.
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The smell of sauce simmering on the stove always brings me back to Sundays at my grandparent's house growing up, when the whole family would gather around for what we call "pasta sugo." Those memories hold a really special place in my heart.
I come from a big Sicilian American family, and gathering on Sundays to eat pasta with red sauce and slowly cooked meats has always been a tradition in our family. My great grandparents came to America as Italian immigrants and brought their Sunday ritual for making "pasta sugo" along with them.
Here in New Jersey, there's an age-old debate about whether this dish is called "sauce" or "gravy." Where I live, and every Italian American makes their pasta sauce a different way, and they all have strong opinions about what it's called.
In our family, we never really called it sauce or gravy ("gravy is for turkey," my pop-pop would say). Our family calls it sugo, which is the Italian word for sauce. No matter what you call it - sugo, sauce or gravy - this is a recipe you definitely want to make.
This recipe for authentic Italian red gravy is ideal for feeding a large group. We serve it at every single family gathering - Christmas, Easter, and sometimes even Thanksgiving - along with other Italian specialties like sausage and peppers, chicken Milanese, eggplant parmesan and lasagna.
While red gravy does require several hours of low and slow cooking, the actual hands-on prep is pretty minimal. This is the best Sunday gravy recipe because it's incredibly forgiving and adaptable. It can easily be scaled up or down to accommodate your number of guests.
But best of all, it freezes beautifully. I always make a full batch even if it's just Chaser and I eating dinner. Then I freeze the leftovers for quick and easy dinners to enjoy another day.
Everyone makes their sauce a little bit different. What makes this recipe special is that ultimately you get to decide what tastes best, and continue the tradition on in your own way.
I'm so excited to share my version of my Sicilian family's authentic recipe for Sunday Sugo, aka pasta sugo, aka Sunday gravy, Sunday sauce, red gravy, or whatever you want to call it. The important thing is that you make it and share it with the people you love.
Why this recipe works
- An authentic recipe, made with quality ingredients, passed down from my Sicilian family.
- Cooked low and slow to coax out rich depth of flavor and make ultra tender, melt-in-your-mouth meat, but with minimal hands-on prep.
- Incredibly versatile and adaptable. Adjust the ingredients and quantities to suit your needs and make it how YOU like it.
- Serves a crowd and is great for parties and special occasions.
- Freezes exceptionally well to make for super easy dinners that your future self will thank you for.
Ingredient Notes
- Canned Tomatoes - You can use whole peeled tomatoes or crushed tomatoes in this recipe. If using whole peeled tomatoes you will need to crush them yourself. Some Italians prefer using tomato puree, or passata pomodoro, which produces an extra smooth sauce. It's really about personal preference. Italians are passionate about which brand of tomatoes they use. San Marzano tomatoes are often said to be the best tomatoes, but I find them inconsistent. My family is partial to the brand Pastene, but use whichever canned or jarred tomatoes you like and are available to you.
- Tomato Paste- Some people in my family don't use tomato paste, but I like the richness that it adds to the sauce.
- Onions and Garlic: I use both in my sauce, but some use either just garlic or onions only. I like to use finely diced onion and thinly sliced garlic cloves so that they melt into the sauce.
- Herbs and Spices: We keep the spices minimal in our sugo. I use fresh Italian parsley and bay leaves, which is our secret ingredient. It gives the spaghetti sauce a subtle, but distinct flavor. If I have fresh basil, I will add a few sprigs as well, but I never add dried basil - it has a different flavor that I don't care for. Some cooks prefer to season only with red pepper flakes and no black pepper - I add a little bit of both for depth of flavor.
- Sugar: This ingredient is very controversial and personal to each cook, but you can add a pinch of sugar to your sauce to balance the acidity - if you prefer. For me, it depends on the tomatoes. Sometimes I add sugar, and sometimes I don't think it's needed.
- Meats: A good Sunday sauce typically includes a variety of meat. Ours always includes meatballs, Italian sausage and big fall-apart pieces of pork. The different types of meat give the sauce lots of flavor and richness - without the meats, it would just be marinara sauce.
- You can use a pork loin, pork chops, pork shoulder (Boston butt), pork ribs, or neck bones, which will breakdown and tenderize as they cook.
- You can also use tough cuts of beef, like chuck, short ribs or shin meat instead, or use a combination of beef and pork. I usually buy whatever is on sale at the grocery store.
- Use either sweet Italian sausage, hot Italian sausage or both to give the sauce a delicious flavor. Put the sausage links in whole and they will break apart as they cook. Try to find sausage made at a local butcher, Italian markets or local grocery stores for best results.
- I always make my homemade authentic Italian meatballs when I make Sunday gravy, but you can use a good quality store bought meatball if you're short on time. Italian markets often sell homemade meatballs that are perfect for using in the sauce.
Optional Additions
These additional ingredients can be added to the sauce for added flavor and will stretch it to feed more people.
- Parmesan Rind: Always save your old parmesan cheese rinds (I keep mine in a bag in the freezer) and add one to the sauce as it slow cooks to give your gravy an extra rich, buttery flavor.
- Hard Boiled Eggs - This is something my grandmother and great grandmother would add to their sugo to add extra protein to the meal to feed their large families. It's not something I typically do today, but it's common among Sicilians.
- Wine - I don't typically add wine to my sauce, but many cooks do. Adding a generous splash -or up to a cup - of either red wine or white wine to this slow-cooked tomato sauce will give it an even deeper flavor, a bit more sweetness and some acidity. For the best tomato sauce, sure to use an un-oaked wine, and don't use an expensive wine (it's a waste).
- Braciole - I prefer to make homemade beef braciole as a stand-alone dinner, but for many families an Italian Sunday dinner wouldn't be complete without braciole in the gravy.
Every family and every cook makes their Sunday gravy a little bit different. Play around with different flavors and ingredients to discover what your family loves!
Helpful Equipment
- Large Pot or Dutch Oven: A large, heavy-bottomed pot or Dutch oven is essential for holding all of the sauce and also for retaining a nice low simmer as the sauce cooks over low heat.
- Large Stock Pot - For cooking the pasta.
- Wooden Spoon: A wooden spoon is traditional for stirring the sauce, but any type of large spoon will work.
- Immersion Blender or Food Mill (Optional): If you prefer using whole peeled tomatoes and want a super smooth sauce, use an immersion blender or food mill to puree the tomatoes before adding to the sauce.
- Can Opener: If you're using canned tomatoes, a can opener is necessary to open the cans.
- Large Strainer or Colander: For draining pasta.
- Large Slotted Spoon - For removing the meat from the sauce.
- Gravy Boat - For serving extra sauce at the table. A gravy boat is the easiest way to do it - and how my grandma always did.
Step by step instructions
1) First, sear the pork to develop a nice depth of flavor.
Heat olive oil in a large pot or Dutch oven over high heat. Season the pork and cook on each side until nicely browned. Set aside.
2) Lower the heat, then sauté the onions until soft.
3) Add the garlic and chili flakes, then continue cooking for another 2 minutes.
Tip: Be careful not to brown the garlic and onions. Cook them nice and gently just to soften.
4) Stir in the tomato paste.
5) Add the tomatoes, bay leaves and parsley, then season with salt and pepper. Fill one empty tomato can with water and add it to the pot, then stir to combine.
Tip: If using whole peeled tomatoes, use the back of a wooden spoon to break them apart. For a smoother sauce, an immersion blender to puree the tomatoes before adding to the pot.
6) Bring the sauce up to a boil, then add the pork loin, sausage and meatballs, then reduce the heat to low. Simmer on the lowest possible heat setting for about 3 hours, or until the pork is falling apart and tender.
Tip: It's important to stir the pot about every 20 minutes or so to prevent the bottom from burning.
Turn off the heat and allow the meats to sit in the sauce until ready to eat. I like to make my sauce on Sunday morning, then let it hang out on the stove all day.
Taste the sauce and adjust the seasonings as needed. Remove the bay leaves and any bones from the pork, then use a slotted spoon to transfer the meats to a large platter, and serve with pasta. Enjoy!
Tips for success
- Cook the onion and garlic slowly over medium-low heat to avoid browning.
- Have your can of tomatoes opened and ready before adding the garlic so that you can add it quickly to prevent the garlic from burning, which can happen quickly.
- For a smoother sauce, use an immersion blender to puree the chunks of tomato and onion, but be sure to remove the bay leaves first.
- Tomato paste is optional. My family like their sugo a little bit thinner, but it adds nice body to the sauce. If you like your gravy a little bit thicker, don't skip it! You can also thin out the sauce with more water as needed.
- Adding sugar to sauce is controversial amongst Italians, but a little pinch can help mellow the acid and balance the flavor. It won’t make the sauce sweet as long as you use a small amount!
- Make sure the sauce is simmering on the lowest heat possible, and give it a stir at least every 20 minutes to ensure the bottom doesn't burn.
- After sautéing the vegetables and adding the tomatoes, you can transfer the sauce to a slow cooker or crock pot, add the meat, and let it cook on low for 5-6 hours.
- This recipe is very forgiving - you can adjust the amount or type of meat to suit your preference and the number of people you're serving.
- Italian red gravy is very rich, so consider finishing with some fresh basil or parsley to add a little freshness.
- Be sure to make enough to have leftovers! They taste even better the next day and freeze beautifully for later.
Serving Suggestions
How to Serve
This is a family recipe, so I'm sharing how my Italian family likes to serve our pasta sugo recipe, aka Italian red gravy. This meat-filled Italian tomato sauce is meant to be served family style. Serve it in the center of a large table, or buffet style on a separate table.
- Pasta - Pasta is always served with Sunday gravy. My favorite pasta to use is rigatoni, but spaghetti, linguine, penne or your favorite pasta will work. Toss al dente pasta with a little bit of sauce and a splash of pasta water until every noodle is evenly coated. Serve the pasta with the meats and extra sauce on the side.
- Meats and Sauce - Use a slotted spoon to remove the meat from the sauce and place it on a large serving platter. Transfer the sauce to gravy boats or pitchers and serve along side the pasta and meat.
- Grated cheese - Always have a bowl of grated cheese for passing around the table. I use either grated Locatelli pecorino Romano, grated Grana Padano or grated Parmigiano Reggiano cheese for topping. Just be sure to use a good quality, freshly grated cheese and not the pre-grated cheese in a can.
- Ricotta cheese - It's traditional in our family to eat pasta sugo with a scoop of ricotta cheese on the side. There's always a bowl of ricotta on the table for passing, and it's my personal favorite addition to the meal. Especially when it's homemade ricotta cheese.
What to serve with it
This authentic Italian Sunday gravy recipe is a classic and comforting dish that your entire family will love. Make your dinner extra special by including some starters, sides and dessert!
- The best Sunday dinners always start with a little Antipasto. Serve a few Italian appetizers or snacks like olives, marinated vegetables or caponata. Italian meats and cheeses are also great to nibble on while the sauce simmers.
- I like to offset the rich gravy with something fresh and green, like a simple Italian salad or Caesar salad, or garlicky sautéed vegetables, like spinach, escarole or broccoli rabe.
- A basket of warm, crusty Italian bread or garlic bread is essential for mopping up every last bit of sauce (and sometimes we even make this chicken cutlet recipe to go along side as well!).
- Wine at the dinner table is a family tradition. Pair your Italian Sunday red gravy with a nice Italian red wine, like Chianti or Sangiovese.
- To end the meal, a traditional Italian or Sicilian dessert like Ricotta Pie would be ideal. Cannoli, tiramisu or ricotta cheesecake would all be great.
FAQ
The Italian word for sauce, "sugo," is sometimes translated to English as gravy, which is how some Italian immigrants began calling it gravy when they came to America. It is commonly debated whether this dish is called sauce or gravy in Italian American culture.
Typically marinara sauce, or tomato sauce, is prepared without meat and only simmers for 20-30 minutes. Red gravy, or sugo, contains big pieces of meat and takes several hours to cook so the meats become tender.
Italian red gravy, or sugo, is a southern Italian dish that consists of a rich red sauce with large pieces of meat. Typically meatballs, Italian sausage and tough cuts of either pork or beef tenderize and fall apart after cooking low and slow for several hours. The meats are typically served on the side along with pasta. Bolognese, or Ragu as it's called in Bologna, is a northern Italian specialty. It's made with ground meat, often pork, beef and/or veal, simmered with Italian sofrito (carrots, celery and onion), white wine, milk and very little tomato. It's traditionally tossed with tagliatelle pasta or layered in lasagne.
This recipe tastes even better the next day. Store leftover meat and sauce together in resealable containers and keep refrigerated for up to 5 days. Keep any leftover pasta separate. For longer storage, the containers can be frozen for up to 6 months. Defrost before reheating on the stove or in the microwave, stirring frequently.
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Italian Sunday Gravy (Sugo)
Ingredients
- 2 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil
- 2-3 lbs pork loin pork chops, ribs and/or neck bones
- kosher salt and black pepper to taste
- 1 small yellow or sweet onion finely diced
- 5 cloves garlic very thinly sliced
- pinch of red chili flakes
- 3 tablespoons tomato paste
- 2 28- ounce cans whole peeled tomatoes or crushed tomatoes
- 2 bay leaves
- 1 tablespoon finely minced Italian parsley
- pinch of sugar optional
- 1 ½ lbs Italian sausage hot, sweet or both
- 1 batch homemade Italian meatballs or 16-20 store-bought meatballs cooked
- pasta for serving
- grated Pecorino Romano cheese for serving
- Ricotta cheese for serving
Instructions
- Heat olive oil in a large pot or Dutch oven over high heat. Season the pork on all sides with salt and pepper, then sear until nicely browned on all sides. Remove and set aside.
- Lower the heat to medium, then add the onions to the pot and sauté until soft, about 5 minutes.
- Add the garlic and chili flakes, then continue cooking for another 2 minutes.
- Stir in the tomato paste for about 1-2 minutes.
- Add the tomatoes, bay leaves and parsley, then season with salt and pepper. Fill one empty tomato can with water and add it to the pot, then stir to combine. If using whole peeled tomatoes, use the back of a wooden spoon to break them apart, or use an immersion blender for a smoother sauce.
- Bring the sauce up to a boil, then add the pork loin, sausage and meatballs and reduce the heat to low. Simmer on the lowest possible heat setting, stirring about every 20 minutes to prevent the bottom from burning, for about 3 hours, or until the pork is falling apart. Turn off the heat and allow the meats to sit in the sauce until ready to eat.
- Taste the sauce and add more salt if needed. Remove the bay leaves and any bones from the pork, then use a slotted spoon to transfer the meats to a large platter.
- Toss al dente pasta with a little bit of sauce, then transfer the rest to gravy boats or another serving vessel, and serve the pasta with the platter of meats and sauce on the side, with a bowl of grated cheese and a bowl of ricotta for passing at the table.
Notes
- Cook the onion and garlic slowly over medium-low heat to avoid browning.
- Have your can of tomatoes opened and ready before adding the garlic so that you can add it quickly to prevent the garlic from burning, which can happen quickly.
- For a smoother sauce, use an immersion blender to puree the chunks of tomato and onion, but be sure to remove the bay leaves first.
- Tomato paste is optional. My family like their sugo a little bit thinner, but it adds nice body to the sauce. If you like your gravy a little bit thicker, don't skip it! You can also thin out the sauce with more water as needed.
- Adding sugar to sauce is controversial amongst Italians, but a little pinch can help mellow the acid and balance the flavor. It won’t make the sauce sweet as long as you use a small amount!
- Make sure the sauce is simmering on the lowest heat possible, and give it a stir at least every 20 minutes to ensure the bottom doesn't burn.
- After sautéing the vegetables and adding the tomatoes, you can transfer the sauce to a slow cooker or crock pot, add the meat, and let it cook on low for 5-6 hours.
- This recipe is very forgiving - you can adjust the amount or type of meat to suit your preference and the number of people you're serving.
- Italian red gravy is very rich, so consider finishing with some fresh basil or parsley to add a little freshness.
- Be sure to make enough to have leftovers! They taste even better the next day and freeze beautifully for later.
if youre debating trying this, do it.
I’m back on this page for the third time and decided to leave a review. The secret to perfect sauce (like your grandma use to make) is pork!
I followed this recipe and used cheap pork chops, and homemade meatballs. Let it simmer for 5.5 hours on low, and it turned out perfectly. Even those tough cuts of pork were fork tender. I broke them into small chunks and served with pasta. Thank you for sharing this recipe!
Thank you so much for leaving such a wonderful comment! I'm so glad you loved the recipe!
This recipe is absolutely delicious. I can’t tell the difference from my Sicilian grandmas Sunday sauce.
What a compliment! Thank you so much for leaving a comment and review. It made my day!
Haven't tried this yet but, this sounds just like the sauce my Grandpa used to make! I can't wait to try it and I know I will be taken right back to those Sunday suppers we had with so many of my loved ones around the table!
Can't wait to try the meatball recipe as well!
Aw, I love this Jodi! Thanks so much for taking the time to leave a comment. I hope the recipe is as good as your Grandpa's! <3
I enjoy experimenting with new Italian recipes, and have had fair success.
This one goes to the top of the list, as my bride of 65 years gave it a strong Five (5 out of 5) tonight!
Thank you for sharing it!
George
Pensacola, FL.
This comment warmed my heart!! Thank you so much for writing. I'm so glad you both enjoyed it 🙂
Turned out very yummy ! I did use some diced tomatoes with green peppers as well ! Was a big hit !
I'm so glad you enjoyed the recipe!
This is exactly how my family makes it! When I was young my grandma would add pigs feet😬
I love that! I bet the pig feed add SO much flavor!! <3
Fabulous authentic recipe. This is the best one out there and she is an amazing cook.
So glad you love it! Thank you!
This is similar to my sauce. I use canned crushed tomatoes, a splash of red wine, basil, salt, pepper, a little dry Italian seasonings. I bring to a hard simmer, add Meatballs. Sausages, neck bone, sometimes ribs. Cook on low, partially covered 5 hours.
Sounds amazing!!
Made this the other day was fantastic. Question can it be canned for longer storage time
Thank you! See my other comment for the response 🙂
Made this today it was great I added both Basil and parsley. Used hot Italian sausage, pork neck and your meatball recipe. My question is can this sauce be canned
SO glad you enjoyed it! I don't have experience with canning this recipe but this article has some good info! https://www.thekitchn.com/is-it-safe-to-can-meat-sauces-95100
Hi! Quick question: do I need to brown the sausage first? I see that the pork gets browned on the outside first and the meatballs are listed as “cooked”, but not sure how to add the sausage. Brown it prior or add raw sausage to sauce? Thanks!
Nope! I just add it right to the sauce raw and let it poach in the liquid. It gets so tender and juicy this way! You are welcome to brown it if you like - it doesn't make a big difference in my opinion. Hope this helps!
Lisa: I browned mine, cut it up and tossed in the sauce for 3+ hours.
Gave it an added dimension of flavor!
I used one package of Johnsonville Hot and one Sweet. Great recipe!
That sounds delicious!
This recipe says to add all the meat and simmer for three hours but the meatball recipe says one hour so they dont fall apart. Which way should I do it if I use your sugo recipe AND your meatball recipe?
Great question. The pork needs at least 3 hours to get fully tender, so I usually get that simmering, then make the meatballs to give the pork a head start. The meatballs start to fall apart the longer they cook, but we usually don't mind so I just throw them in as soon as they're ready. If you really want to prevent this though, you can wait an hour or two before adding them to the sauce. I hope this helps!
Great recipe! Really love all your recipes!
Only one complaint, how dare you call it gravy😂
I know it's brought deep shame to my family!! Sugo for life!
I’m also Sicilian (on my mom’s side) and I vouch for this recipe! My mom no longer puts onion in her sauce, but I like to use vidalia onions as I find the sweetness helps balance the acidity of the sauce without having to add sugar. My family recipe also doesn’t use bay leaves but instead a pinch of ground cloves to give the sauce its earthiness.
Also, when my grandma made braciole she put hard boiled egg inside. Most people think it’s peculiar, but it’s how I’m used to them.
Great to read about your sugo recipe and your family tradition!
Wow, this is a great review! My mom always used vidalia's in her sauce, too, and many of my family members prefer to make theirs without onions, just garlic. The addition of cloves is super interesting, I've never heard that before! I'll have to give it a try. The bay leaves are essential for me. They give a very distinct but subtle flavor, and without them, it just doesn't taste like home. Thanks for leaving such a great comment!
My mother, mother and father was from Southern Italy. Yes I remember my mom making her sauce on Sundays and holidays The recipe is almost the same. Waking up to the smell before going to church getting some italian bread and smothering the sauce over it. Mmmm good. She always put her sausage and meat balls straight in the sauce.
Now I taught my son and he taught his son how to make it.
I'm so glad this is so similar to your family recipe! I love hearing about the different ways people make their sauce. I love that the tradition is being carried on in your family!
I tried the crockpot method and ended up with water at the end of my work day. Reduced on stove for an hour and it was delicious. MUST be made on stove or you'll be disappointed!
Thank you for the feedback!
Hi Nicole I've made you chicken cutlets and they are fantastic and I have your Sunday sauce (sugo) on my stove with your meatballs. I' am looking forward it thank you for sharing your recipes.
SO glad you enjoyed the recipe!!!
Made this sauce this morning, and it's currently sitting pretty on my stove until I serve dinner. Ate 1 meatball and rib with the sauce and OMG, sooo good! Will def make this again. Pretty straight forward and easy recipe. Thank you for sharing!
SO glad you enjoyed the recipe! I always sneak a meatball or two for lunch 🙂
My family came to America in 1919. I learned Italian cooking from all my female relatives. Our family gravy recipe is somewhat close to yours. Difference being, we saute Minced red bell pepper, onion, garlic, salt, pepper and grated carrots in EVOO. After that we add the tomato paste and fry it up pretty good. Then start adding equal cans of sauce, diced, crushed and 1 can of peeled stewed tomatoes crushed by hand over the pot puree, parm rind, parsley and a juice glass of Chianti. All this done on high with continual stirring, being sure to have sauce come back up to boil after adding each can of tomato. Finally cover and lower temperature to low, cover and stir every 15 minutes. Now do this for 10 to 12 hours and sauce is done. I know it sounds excessive but I use 3 cans of each afore mentioned sauces except only 2 cans of paste and one can of whole tomatoes. Main reason for the time is to allow all tomato solids to breakdown. After that I let cool and put in containers to freeze. Now when I need sauce, I just take out what I need for the next day and let it thaw in the fridge. Then from there you can heat it up and do whatever you want to with it. Adding meat to it several hours prior to dinner on low allows the meat to tenderize without falling apart. Just so you know, I am 74 year old male, been making this same recipe for over a half century
I loved reading your comment, Joe! Where exactly was your family from? My great grandparents emigrated to the Boston area from Sicily around the same time as yours. I love hearing about all the different ways people make their sauce. I love that you add the parm rind and chianti! I will have to try it sometime, it sounds delicious. Thanks so much for writing in!
Made this yesterday for my family, it was incredible. I've never had pork so tender.
Thanks Carol, so happy you and your family enjoyed it!